“One of the main reasons I did not want to attend a weekend was I figured they would want me to change. I was not ready for a change. To start with, it wasn’t me that needed the changes, it was my wife. At that time I was looking for a million reasons not to go. When I finally agreed to go, this was a weekend that helped me open my eyes and I did realise I needed to make some changes for the sake of my relationship. It is three years since we made our weekend and it was the best thing we ever did for each other. Please believe me, you may not ‘need’ to go, but you and your spouse ‘deserve’ to go.”